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This is a space where survivors of trauma and abuse share their stories alongside supportive allies. These stories remind us that hope exists even in dark times. You are never alone in your experience. Healing is possible for everyone.
Survival. accept and accepted myself as an asexual which is my nature I realized at 50 years old
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You are allowed to feel whatever you are feeling, and it wasn't your fault.
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I want to no longer be plagued by flashback and nightmares, and want a chance at having a partner and a family one day. I also want to get to a point where i can use what happened to me growing up to help other people navigate some of the things they are experiencing, or to bring awareness and understanding to childhood trauma and abuse
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I wish when I was younger I understand the value of healing. Instead, I tried to persevere and suppress only to find myself in a toxic relationship trying to do my best for my children. Healing means, finding my normal.
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Hey, don't take what I said as a life lesson you ppl are amazing and I hope whoever did those things to you gets really sick and dies alone.
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i dont know what is healing , i have never healed and dont know if i'll ever be healed
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I wish when I was younger I understand the value of healing. Instead, I tried to persevere and suppress only to find myself in a toxic relationship trying to do my best for my children. Healing means, finding my normal.
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i dont know what is healing , i have never healed and dont know if i'll ever be healed
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Survival. accept and accepted myself as an asexual which is my nature I realized at 50 years old
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I want to no longer be plagued by flashback and nightmares, and want a chance at having a partner and a family one day. I also want to get to a point where i can use what happened to me growing up to help other people navigate some of the things they are experiencing, or to bring awareness and understanding to childhood trauma and abuse
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Hey, don't take what I said as a life lesson you ppl are amazing and I hope whoever did those things to you gets really sick and dies alone.
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Grounding activity
Find a comfortable place to sit. Gently close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths - in through your nose (count to 3), out through your mouth (count of 3). Now open your eyes and look around you. Name the following out loud:
5 – things you can see (you can look within the room and out of the window)
4 – things you can feel (what is in front of you that you can touch?)
3 – things you can hear
2 – things you can smell
1 – thing you like about yourself.
Take a deep breath to end.
From where you are sitting, look around for things that have a texture or are nice or interesting to look at.
Hold an object in your hand and bring your full focus to it. Look at where shadows fall on parts of it or maybe where there are shapes that form within the object. Feel how heavy or light it is in your hand and what the surface texture feels like under your fingers (This can also be done with a pet if you have one).
Take a deep breath to end.
Ask yourself the following questions and answer them out loud:
1. Where am I?
2. What day of the week is today?
3. What is today’s date?
4. What is the current month?
5. What is the current year?
6. How old am I?
7. What season is it?
Take a deep breath to end.
Put your right hand palm down on your left shoulder. Put your left hand palm down on your right shoulder. Choose a sentence that will strengthen you. For example: “I am powerful.” Say the sentence out loud first and pat your right hand on your left shoulder, then your left hand on your right shoulder.
Alternate the patting. Do ten pats altogether, five on each side, each time repeating your sentences aloud.
Take a deep breath to end.
Cross your arms in front of you and draw them towards your chest. With your right hand, hold your left upper arm. With your left hand, hold your right upper arm. Squeeze gently, and pull your arms inwards. Hold the squeeze for a little while, finding the right amount of squeeze for you in this moment. Hold the tension and release. Then squeeze for a little while again and release. Stay like that for a moment.
Take a deep breath to end.