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This is a space where survivors of trauma and abuse share their stories alongside supportive allies. These stories remind us that hope exists even in dark times. You are never alone in your experience. Healing is possible for everyone.
If you’re another survivor look at yourself in the mirror and admire your strength for you have made it this far in a world that has been cruel to you. You deserve to be safe, you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be loved by yourself and by others and you’re worthy of happiness. You are worthy of everything good and positive.
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for me healing means taking the strength i’ve built up inside me to keep going and use it in a positive way, not running away from what happened to me but using it to fuel my life source. right now that seems difficult but it’s definitely what I want from healing.
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I thought he was my freind until I told him about my sa and he made”jokes about it” eventually put his hands on me and drug me out my dorm room
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Congratulations Elizabeth on all your Dedication and Commitment to passing Trey’s Law!! Officially in Effect in Texas today!! 🙌🎉💯 You are Honoring Trey with Legacy and Love! ❤️🩹❤️🩹
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You are never alone. That traumatic experience does not define you, it does not define your worth, it does not get to dictate your life. You are still your own beautiful soul.
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To me, healing means learning to live with what happened and carrying that with you.
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Dont give up. Even a life of suffering is better than no life at all.
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Healing means finding safety and peace. At the moment, I haven’t been able to secure safety. Reaching out to this site and consulting with you are the only steps I’ve managed to take so far. I hope for support and understanding to help me recover from my trauma and reclaim my life.
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healing does not mean returning to who i was but instead growing and turning into a better stronger version of myself.
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it means to me that i dont have to live with this dark cloud of shame hanging over my head anymore
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This trauma was very recent for me. Currently, healing for me is taking it day by day and trying to love myself through everything that comes up for me as I sift the the rubble the remains of the person I once was.
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What happened to you is not on you, it's on them. It's a part of your story but it is not your whole story. You are stronger than you think you are.
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Healing to me is being kind to yourself and allow yourself to have those hard days, allow your heart to love yourself because you are pretty amazing. For me art was my way to express those feelings even though I was not good at it, I just let it be and kept going.
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This is a space where survivors of trauma and abuse share their stories alongside supportive allies. These stories remind us that hope exists even in dark times. You are never alone in your experience. Healing is possible for everyone.
I thought he was my freind until I told him about my sa and he made”jokes about it” eventually put his hands on me and drug me out my dorm room
Report
Congratulations Elizabeth on all your Dedication and Commitment to passing Trey’s Law!! Officially in Effect in Texas today!! 🙌🎉💯 You are Honoring Trey with Legacy and Love! ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Report
You are never alone. That traumatic experience does not define you, it does not define your worth, it does not get to dictate your life. You are still your own beautiful soul.
Report
Healing means finding safety and peace. At the moment, I haven’t been able to secure safety. Reaching out to this site and consulting with you are the only steps I’ve managed to take so far. I hope for support and understanding to help me recover from my trauma and reclaim my life.
Report
healing does not mean returning to who i was but instead growing and turning into a better stronger version of myself.
Report
What happened to you is not on you, it's on them. It's a part of your story but it is not your whole story. You are stronger than you think you are.
Report
Healing to me is being kind to yourself and allow yourself to have those hard days, allow your heart to love yourself because you are pretty amazing. For me art was my way to express those feelings even though I was not good at it, I just let it be and kept going.
Report
for me healing means taking the strength i’ve built up inside me to keep going and use it in a positive way, not running away from what happened to me but using it to fuel my life source. right now that seems difficult but it’s definitely what I want from healing.
Report
Dont give up. Even a life of suffering is better than no life at all.
Report
If you’re another survivor look at yourself in the mirror and admire your strength for you have made it this far in a world that has been cruel to you. You deserve to be safe, you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be loved by yourself and by others and you’re worthy of happiness. You are worthy of everything good and positive.
Report
To me, healing means learning to live with what happened and carrying that with you.
Report
it means to me that i dont have to live with this dark cloud of shame hanging over my head anymore
Report
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Grounding activity
Find a comfortable place to sit. Gently close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths - in through your nose (count to 3), out through your mouth (count of 3). Now open your eyes and look around you. Name the following out loud:
5 – things you can see (you can look within the room and out of the window)
4 – things you can feel (what is in front of you that you can touch?)
3 – things you can hear
2 – things you can smell
1 – thing you like about yourself.
Take a deep breath to end.
From where you are sitting, look around for things that have a texture or are nice or interesting to look at.
Hold an object in your hand and bring your full focus to it. Look at where shadows fall on parts of it or maybe where there are shapes that form within the object. Feel how heavy or light it is in your hand and what the surface texture feels like under your fingers (This can also be done with a pet if you have one).
Take a deep breath to end.
Ask yourself the following questions and answer them out loud:
1. Where am I?
2. What day of the week is today?
3. What is today’s date?
4. What is the current month?
5. What is the current year?
6. How old am I?
7. What season is it?
Take a deep breath to end.
Put your right hand palm down on your left shoulder. Put your left hand palm down on your right shoulder. Choose a sentence that will strengthen you. For example: “I am powerful.” Say the sentence out loud first and pat your right hand on your left shoulder, then your left hand on your right shoulder.
Alternate the patting. Do ten pats altogether, five on each side, each time repeating your sentences aloud.
Take a deep breath to end.
Cross your arms in front of you and draw them towards your chest. With your right hand, hold your left upper arm. With your left hand, hold your right upper arm. Squeeze gently, and pull your arms inwards. Hold the squeeze for a little while, finding the right amount of squeeze for you in this moment. Hold the tension and release. Then squeeze for a little while again and release. Stay like that for a moment.
Take a deep breath to end.