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When i was 14 this guy a year older in my class was white and raised in a european household with parents who didn’t hide kiss scenes when it showed on the tv. They normalized it to the point this kid would try to use me as an object and only saw me with lustful intentions. The things he did physically and online were too many and too overwhelming my brain chose to forget it. Until I realized how my naivety was taken advantage of and he would force me to hang out with him. And take me to places nobody was at and kiss me even when I said no. He would touch me and look up my skirt multiple times and I couldn’t do anything because then he would guilt trip me or diminish what he did and say its normal because his parents casually have condoms in the house all the time so this wasn’t anything. He would always make sexual references and I was uncomfortable and whenever he was physical I couldn’t do anything but cry at home because he would also threaten me with his life as a form of manipulation. Something too much for a 14 year old. I had some sort of flight response where I couldn’t do anything to stop him or tell my friends. It’s been a few years and I’m not sure how to contact his parents and if they’re gonna defend their disgusting son or not. I’m traumatized and don’t know what the next step is because I can’t stand the fact that he just got away with it.

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