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GTA/Location Girl
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I don't want to teach you to hold grudges and not let go however, make sure you are reporting any kind of behavior that is illegal towards you or others it could cost someone their lives it's not being vindictive. It's doing the right thing.
I just recently graduated with an associate's degree in healthcare Management. Upon entering my first job out of school I experienced sexual exploitation online and in person as well as defamation harassment verbal and psychological abuse and spiritual warfare. It was reported multiple times and eventually it was turned around on me. I had a group of girls that ganged up on me inside the workplace and made me dislike going to work each day. I was discouraged humiliated and violated online and in person putting my safety at risk because of the sexual nature that I was being discussed online. My supervisors were made aware of it and actually bore witness to it. They made the statement that my coworkers online activity had no prevalence in the workplace even if it caused me harm and put my safety at risk and I do not even have an online presence. I was eventually terminated for voicing my concern of feeling unsafe and that I might fall under a terrorist attack at any time at work or followed home. In which case after my termination I did have things around my home that were vandalized. I was also the victim of bank fraud through the same individual who made a bank account on LinkedIn and Phish me to work from home while making me experience all these things at work to make me want to leave. Even after I was terminated for reporting this abuse that lasted for over 30 days the individual continued to deface me and attack me and smear me online putting my safety at risk. Nobody wants to interview me or hire me because of this individual and I feel like the entity that I just left is responsible as well because they did not do anything to reprimand her behavior. I no longer want to pursue or am excited about pursuing a career with the degree I just obtained after having to endure these things in a place that was supposed to keep me safe from this behavior.
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Grounding activity
Find a comfortable place to sit. Gently close your eyes and take a couple of deep breaths - in through your nose (count to 3), out through your mouth (count of 3). Now open your eyes and look around you. Name the following out loud:
5 – things you can see (you can look within the room and out of the window)
4 – things you can feel (what is in front of you that you can touch?)
3 – things you can hear
2 – things you can smell
1 – thing you like about yourself.
Take a deep breath to end.
From where you are sitting, look around for things that have a texture or are nice or interesting to look at.
Hold an object in your hand and bring your full focus to it. Look at where shadows fall on parts of it or maybe where there are shapes that form within the object. Feel how heavy or light it is in your hand and what the surface texture feels like under your fingers (This can also be done with a pet if you have one).
Take a deep breath to end.
Ask yourself the following questions and answer them out loud:
1. Where am I?
2. What day of the week is today?
3. What is today’s date?
4. What is the current month?
5. What is the current year?
6. How old am I?
7. What season is it?
Take a deep breath to end.
Put your right hand palm down on your left shoulder. Put your left hand palm down on your right shoulder. Choose a sentence that will strengthen you. For example: “I am powerful.” Say the sentence out loud first and pat your right hand on your left shoulder, then your left hand on your right shoulder.
Alternate the patting. Do ten pats altogether, five on each side, each time repeating your sentences aloud.
Take a deep breath to end.
Cross your arms in front of you and draw them towards your chest. With your right hand, hold your left upper arm. With your left hand, hold your right upper arm. Squeeze gently, and pull your arms inwards. Hold the squeeze for a little while, finding the right amount of squeeze for you in this moment. Hold the tension and release. Then squeeze for a little while again and release. Stay like that for a moment.
Take a deep breath to end.