am i alone in this ?

Someone made out with me at a party knowing my severe level of intoxication and they were sober. I confided in a person with what happened because that event was bothering me and i felt like i was taken advantage of, and for context i have a very small circle and i don't know too many people, i never knew that person would treat my story like cheap gossip. The person who made out with me when i was drunk then knew that i confided in a person with my story , having too many friends they starting spreading a reverse narrative saying i pressured them to kiss me , that i was crying and was too clingy , that i made them uncomfortable , the narrative soon transformed into me harrassing them and not the opposite, this event has been quite shocking and i can't seem to believe what happened, i can't seem to accept how can someone accuse you of something they did, i didn't defend myself or try to say anything about it because my nervous system can't handle gossip , attention and problems so i just kept quite and let them and their friends gang up against me knowinf i'm innocent, i want to know if there are similar people with my sorty , people whom their harrassers accused them and tried to portray them as a harrasser and started spreading a counter nagative , is it only me ? or did other people experience that too ?