To the boy who want to help his long distance girlfriend.

First I want to say sth To 'the boy who doesnt know how to help his long distance girlfriend after her assault'. Then I'll tell you the short version of my story. I hope this message helps you and your girlfriend. I just wanted to assure you that you're not alone. Let her know that what happened was not her fault, that she has the right to say no and defend her self cause she's so strong. Remind her that she's strong, but she doesn't have to go through all this alone-youre there for her. Tell her to be kind to her self and never blame it. Tell her that you're going to be there while she heals. Sometimes just listening and believing her is the greatest support you can give. Just by wanting to support her you're already doing sth important. I understand her pain cause Ive been through it. "I was sexually abused by my uncle( my mom's little brother ) He was in his firt twenties and I was a fresh teenager. I couldnt say no cause I was too scared. I was so broken that I think I might have blocked some memories. I hate him so much. I completely collapsed when my mom didnt take any action after finding out. My heart, trust, and everything in me was and still is broken into million peices. I felt and am still feeling betrayed. First I was blaming myself cause I let him do it. I let him hurt me. Bit now I wish he gets to live the hell he made me live through." So Good luck🍀. And remember you're not alone.❤ I wish there were a way to respond to those who ask questions.