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Message of Hope

Hope stands for Hold On, Pain Ends. You don't have to suffer in silence. You don't have to fight the ghosts of your past alone. You don't have to allow your history to assassinate your future. You can heal. If I can heal, anyone can heal. My story is full of self-destruction, pain, addiction, and unresolved trauma, but it is also full of healing, forgiveness, self-love, and a perpetual revelation of self-worth. We should always allow hope to rise to the top. I believe that at the root of our soul hope is alive, begging to be released and begin its journey, attempting to ultimately deliver us to its intended destination of love, peace, and happiness. Reach out to me on instagram Instagram Message me or just read my posts.....I know my survival was intentional.....and if my truth helps someone else, then I am living my purpose.

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