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Wopapaloozapole

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Anything you feel now is temporary. I know it feels like it will never end, but I promise it will.

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I have healed.

Hello. I'm currently a university student who was sexually abused for about a year or so as a middle schooler. Let me start: I went to a private school where there were middle school and high school on the same campus. When I was 13, a 16 y/o high schooler came on to me, asked to be my boyfriend. It was the very first time anyone has ever asked me such thing, and I said "yes", to "not break his heart". Silly, but i was only 13! A week later I told him i wanted to break up bc I didn't enjoy the relationship, and he told me I can't, and that he'd never let me go. That's when I had my first kiss; on the back row of the school bus. And every day on that school bus he would touch me, finger me, kiss me, without any consent whatsoever. I was so afraid that I would get expelled or that my parents would find out so I couldn't tell anyone. This went on for a year. Then, he got a girlfriend, another high schooler. But he "gave" me to his best friend, who continued to do what he had been doing for a year. Then they took a video of me and threatened to share it with the whole school.

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