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This is a space where survivors of trauma and abuse share their stories alongside supportive allies. These stories remind us that hope exists even in dark times. You are never alone in your experience. Healing is possible for everyone.
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I don't know what it means to heal, but I know I'm not ready to give up my anger yet, because I'm afraid it will be replaced by forgiveness and compassion, and I don't think they deserve that from me. However, I see how much my anger is draining me and distracting me from work. I want to heal, but I don't want to let them off the hook for what they did, and I don't know how to keep them on the hook without feeling debilitating anger and hatred towards them. I will never get justice and accountability; healing is on me. They will not be a part of that; they cannot offer closure or undo what they've done. I have to find my own closure, I just don't know how to right now, which is why I am reaching out.
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