Is it still sexual assault if I was told by an adult to send nude photos of myself, even if it was only over text?

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your question. Yes, what you experienced is a form of sexual exploitation and abuse, and in many jurisdictions, it's classified as a crime. When an adult solicits nude images from someone, they are engaging in sexually abusive behavior that violates boundaries and consent. The fact that this occurred through text messages doesn't diminish the seriousness of what happened. This behavior is a serious violation of trust and boundaries, and it is illegal in many places.

What you're describing specifically falls under the category of sexual exploitation, which includes coercing or manipulating someone into producing sexual content. When an adult engages in this kind of communication, they are misusing their position of power and maturity to manipulate or pressure someone who may not fully understand the implications. Adults have a responsibility to maintain appropriate boundaries, and requesting nude photos violates those boundaries and constitutes predatory behavior.

Many survivors of this type of exploitation experience similar feelings to those who have experienced in-person sexual assault, including feelings of violation, shame, confusion, guilt, fear, or self-blame. These reactions are normal responses to an abnormal situation. It's important to understand that you are not at fault for what happened. The responsibility lies entirely with the adult who chose to engage in inappropriate behavior. Regardless of how you responded at the time, you have the right to feel safe and respected, and no one should ever pressure or coerce you into sharing images or information that make you uncomfortable.

If you're struggling with this experience, connecting with a trained counselor or advocate who specializes in sexual violence can be helpful. Consider reaching out to someone you trust—a family member, teacher, counselor, or another trusted adult. Sharing what happened can provide you with support and guidance. Organizations like RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) offer confidential support services and a 24/7 chatline.

Healing looks different for everyone, and there's no timeline for processing these experiences. Remember, you're not alone, and there are people who care about you and want to help. Your well-being is important. Thank you for trusting us