Can digital (finger) penetration be considered oral? Or is that not accurate terminology?

Thank you for reaching out with this question. It's completely understandable to feel uncertain about these terms, as they can sometimes be confusing.

Digital penetration specifically refers to the use of fingers ("digits") to penetrate a body opening such as the vagina or anus. This is considered a form of sexual activity involving penetration, but it is not classified as oral sex. Oral sex specifically involves the use of the mouth to stimulate the genitals or intimate areas of another person. If someone uses their fingers to penetrate another person's mouth, this would typically be described as "fingers in the mouth" rather than oral penetration. 

Digital penetration is a significant act and is acknowledged in both medical and legal contexts. Understanding precise terminology can be helpful for several reasons: communicating with healthcare providers, understanding consent boundaries, discussing experiences in therapy, or simply having language that accurately describes what happened. It is important to recognize that any form of sexual activity requires clear and enthusiastic consent from all parties involved.

If you're asking because of personal experiences or concerns, please know that your feelings are valid, and it's okay to seek support or guidance. Many people find that having accurate language to describe their experiences can be an important part of processing them. There's no rush to label any experience, and you get to decide what language feels most authentic to you. Thank you for reaching out to us.