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title: 私が中学生のとき、10代後半の姉が私の前でボーイフレンドと性行為に及んでいました。姉は、私が姉の言うことを信じていて、両親に話してほしくないから、彼らは不適切なことはしていないと主張していました。両親は、姉が弟と一緒にいれば行儀よくしないだろうと考え、私を姉を監視するための駒としてよく利用していました。姉はまた、私に生々しい性的な話をして、性的に興奮したり、タバコを吸ったり、ドラッグを使ったりするように勧める一方で、それらは悪いことだからやらないようにとも言っていました。私は、大したことではないことで動揺しているように感じることが多いのですが、これらの経験が私を暗い道へと導き、グルーミング、性的虐待、強制、さらには性的人身売買の被害に遭いやすくしました。これは児童による児童への性的虐待（COCSA）だったのでしょうか、それとも単に不適切な行動だったのでしょうか。 ~ Our Wave コミュニティ
description: <p>この体験をシェアしてくださって本当にありがとうございます。中学生時代に姉と経験したことはよくないことでしたし、それに対するあなたの気持ちはもっともです。これが子ども同士の性的虐待 (COCSA)...
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# 私が中学生のとき、10代後半の姉が私の前でボーイフレンドと性行為に及んでいました。姉は、私が姉の言うことを信じていて、両親に話してほしくないから、彼らは不適切なことはしていないと主張していました。両親は、姉が弟と一緒にいれば行儀よくしないだろうと考え、私を姉を監視するための駒としてよく利用していました。姉はまた、私に生々しい性的な話をして、性的に興奮したり、タバコを吸ったり、ドラッグを使ったりするように勧める一方で、それらは悪いことだからやらないようにとも言っていました。私は、大したことではないことで動揺しているように感じることが多いのですが、これらの経験が私を暗い道へと導き、グルーミング、性的虐待、強制、さらには性的人身売買の被害に遭いやすくしました。これは児童による児童への性的虐待（COCSA）だったのでしょうか、それとも単に不適切な行動だったのでしょうか。

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博士号精神保健看護師＆性暴力看護師認定者

トピックス:[特定の種類のトラウマや危害を理解する](/ja/learn?tags=understanding-specific-types-of-trauma-and-harm)[幼少期の経験を理解する](/ja/learn?tags=making-sense-of-childhood-experiences)

この体験をシェアしてくださって本当にありがとうございます。中学生時代に姉と経験したことはよくないことでしたし、それに対するあなたの気持ちはもっともです。これが子ども同士の性的虐待 (COCSA) なのか、それとも単に「よくない」だけなのか疑問に思うのも無理はありません。あなたがシェアしてくれた内容から判断すると、姉があなたに苦痛を与えるつもりはなかったとしても、あなたに対する彼女の態度は不適切で有害だったようです。

幼い頃に妹の性行為を目撃したり、生々しい性的な話を聞かされたり、喫煙や薬物使用などの危険な行為を勧められたりすることは、子供にとって混乱やトラウマになる可能性があります。そのような経験をした生存者が、動揺、混乱、自信喪失など、さまざまな感情を抱くことは珍しくありません。

妹さんの行動は、妹さんが気づいていたかどうかに関わらず、あなたを弱い立場に置き、その後の人生で誘惑、性的虐待、強要、さらには人身売買などの困難に直面する原因となった可能性があることを認識することが重要です。あなたの経験は重要であり、それがあなたに大きな影響を与えたことは理解できます。

COCSA という用語は通常、児童間の性的虐待を説明するために使用されますが、妹のあなたに対する不適切で有害な行為を軽視すべきではありません。あなたが経験したことは公平でも適切でもなかったことを認めることが重要です。動揺して、これらの経験を処理するためにサポートを求めるのは問題ありません。

安心して話せるのであれば、妹さんの過去の行動が自分にどんな影響を与えたか、妹さんと自分の気持ちを話すのもよいかもしれません。難しい会話になるかもしれませんが、感情を表現し、心の整理をつけるのに役立つかもしれません。ただし、自分の感情的な健康を優先し、この会話は自分にとって有益だと感じた場合のみ行うことが重要です。

あなたは一人ではないことを知っておいてください。また、そのような経験から生じる複雑な感情や課題を乗り越えるのに役立つリソースやサポート サービスがあります。性的虐待や人身売買の被害者への支援を専門とする、トラウマに精通したセラピストの指導を求めることで、経験を処理し、対処戦略を立て、治癒に向けて取り組むための安全な場所を得ることができます。

覚えておいてください。あなたに起こったことはあなたのせいではなく、あなたの感情は正当なものです。自分に優しくして、回復は可能だと信じてください。すぐにサポートが必要な場合、またはさらにこの件について検討したい場合は、1-800-656-4673 の National Sexual Assault Hotline またはオンライン[チャットにご連絡ください。](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhotline.rainn.org%2Fonline&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=1a9b6b5d-fe41-414c-a6ce-08649013b8ba&sig=68b74b882a92b521b41c4925dc434483232bfa31fe7578d5b107c48bed4f6fd6)

ご連絡いただき、誠にありがとうございます。あなたは一人ではありません。あなたの経験は大切なのです。

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[\[Image: Argentina\]Argentina](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=ar)[\[Image: Australia\]Australia](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=au)[\[Image: Bolivia\]Bolivia](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=ca)[\[Image: Chile\]Chile](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=cl)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153?country=ve)

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[English](/en/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153)[Español](/es/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153)[日本語](/ja/answer/when-i-was-in-middle-school-my-older-sister-who-was-in-her-late-teens-would-engage-in-sexual-activity-with-her-boyfriends-in-front-of-me-she-would-claim-that-they-werent-doing-anything-inappropriate-because-she-thought-i-believed-her-and-didnt-want-me-to-tell-our-parents-my-parents-often-used-me-as-a-pawn-to-keep-an-eye-on-her-thinking-she-wouldnt-misbehave-if-her-younger-sibling-was-present-she-would-also-share-graphic-sexual-stories-with-me-and-encourage-me-to-be-sexual-smoke-and-use-drugs-while-simultaneously-telling-me-those-things-were-bad-and-not-to-do-them-i-often-feel-like-im-upset-over-nothing-but-these-experiences-sent-me-down-a-dark-path-making-me-vulnerable-to-grooming-sexual-abuse-coercion-and-even-sex-trafficking-was-this-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-or-just-inappropriate-behavior-153)

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