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title: 私が7〜8歳のとき、私と友人は、同じ年齢のいとこから友人が受けた虐待を真似て、衣服を触るゲームをしました。当時は、その意味を理解していませんでした。私はその肉体的な感覚を楽しみましたが、今ではこの経験を処理するのに苦労しています。このゲームについて自分のいとこに伝えたか、一緒にプレイするように頼んだかはわかりませんが、実際にはそうしなかったと思います。この状況は、児童による児童への性的虐待（COCSA）に該当しますか？私の行動がいとこにどのような影響を与えたか心配です。私と友人の両方が喜んでこのゲームに参加したが、それが友人の虐待体験に端を発している場合、それでもCOCSAと見なされますか？ ~ Our Wave コミュニティ
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# 私が7〜8歳のとき、私と友人は、同じ年齢のいとこから友人が受けた虐待を真似て、衣服を触るゲームをしました。当時は、その意味を理解していませんでした。私はその肉体的な感覚を楽しみましたが、今ではこの経験を処理するのに苦労しています。このゲームについて自分のいとこに伝えたか、一緒にプレイするように頼んだかはわかりませんが、実際にはそうしなかったと思います。この状況は、児童による児童への性的虐待（COCSA）に該当しますか？私の行動がいとこにどのような影響を与えたか心配です。私と友人の両方が喜んでこのゲームに参加したが、それが友人の虐待体験に端を発している場合、それでもCOCSAと見なされますか？

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トピックス:[特定の種類のトラウマや危害を理解する](/ja/learn?tags=understanding-specific-types-of-trauma-and-harm)[幼少期の経験を理解する](/ja/learn?tags=making-sense-of-childhood-experiences)

ご連絡いただき、誠にありがとうございます。あなたが述べた経験には、幼少期の複雑な関わりが関係しています。これらの経験をどのように解釈し、分類するかは、完全にあなた次第であることを認識することが重要です。幼少期の出来事に対する見方は、人それぞれで、それぞれに固有のものです。

あなたが説明したこと、つまり幼い頃のあなたと友達との遊びは、幼少期の探究とトラウマ処理の一種と分類できるでしょう。子どもたちが周囲の世界を理解しようと、さまざまな遊びをすることは珍しくありません。時には、体験したことや聞いたことを再現することもあります。虐待を経験した子どもたちが、その体験を遊びを通して再現することも珍しくありません。多くの場合、その意味を完全に理解していません。

この遊びに参加したことは、あなたにとって悪いことではありません。あなたたちは二人とも幼い子供で、当時は自然に感じていた行動をしていたのです。しかし、あなたの友人の経験に端を発する遊びは、状況をさらに複雑にしています。この状況は、遊びの性的な性質と虐待に端を発しているため、技術的には[子供同士の性的虐待 (COCSA](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ourwave.org%2Fpost%2Fchild-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-frequently-asked-questions-and-considerations&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=c9aa7898-88a5-40bb-ba59-ecdc6d4ae9fa&sig=70057f8a74f400b6505c541482fb4f8fbcb1f1464a84ec8c39f3ccf3b9ff0413) ) に分類できますが、子供の無邪気さと理解の欠如という背景を認識することが重要です。そのため、この状況は虐待と分類されない可能性があります。

自分の行動がいとこにどのような影響を与えたかというあなたの心配は、その後あなたがしたことに悪意がなかったことを明確に示しています。この心配は、幼少期の出来事を振り返っても、他人に対するあなたの共感と気遣いを示しています。これはあなたの性格と道徳観の良い兆候です。

過去の出来事について苦しんでいる場合は、幼少期のトラウマ体験を専門とするメンタルヘルスの専門家に助けを求めると良いでしょう。彼らは、これらの記憶や、その結果としてあなたが抱いているかもしれない関連する感情を処理するためのツールを提供してくれます。

いとこに関して言えば、このゲームに関する情報を共有する可能性があることに罪悪感や恥ずかしさを感じているのであれば、何が起こったのかを明確にするために彼女と話し合うことが役立つかもしれません。これにより、あなたの不安が軽減され、両者にとって決着がつくかもしれません。ただし、そうすることに抵抗がなく、双方にとって有益であると確信できる場合にのみ、これを追求してください。

思い出してください、あなたは状況を完全に理解せずに行動していた子供でした。これらの記憶に自分自身への思いやりと理解を持って取り組むことが重要です。あなたの現在の思慮深さと心配りは、当時も今もあなたの善良な心と意図を表しています。

他にご質問がある場合や、さらに説明が必要な場合は、遠慮なくお尋ねください。幼少期の体験を処理するのは複雑なことであり、これらの出来事を理解して受け入れることは大きな一歩です。ご連絡いただき、本当にありがとうございます。あなたは一人ではありません。

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Republic](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174?country=ve)

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[English](/en/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174)[Español](/es/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174)[日本語](/ja/answer/when-i-was-7-8-years-old-my-friend-and-i-engaged-in-a-game-involving-clothed-touching-imitating-abuse-that-my-friend-had-experienced-from-a-cousin-of-the-same-age-at-the-time-we-didnt-understand-the-implications-i-enjoyed-the-physical-sensations-but-im-now-struggling-to-process-this-experience-im-unsure-if-i-shared-information-about-this-game-with-my-own-cousin-or-asked-to-play-it-with-her-though-i-dont-think-we-actually-did-does-this-situation-qualify-as-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-im-concerned-about-how-my-actions-might-have-affected-my-cousin-if-both-my-friend-and-i-were-willing-participants-in-this-game-but-it-originated-from-my-friends-experience-of-abuse-is-it-still-considered-cocsa-174)

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接地活動

座り心地の良い場所を見つけてください。目を軽く閉じて、深呼吸を数回します。鼻から息を吸い（3つ数え）、口から息を吐きます（3つ数え）。さあ、目を開けて周りを見回してください。以下のことを声に出して言ってみてください。

見えるもの5つ（部屋の中と窓の外を見ることができます）

感じるもの4つ（目の前にあるもので触れるものは何ですか？）

聞こえるもの3つ

匂いを嗅ぐもの2つ

自分の好きなところ1つ。

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

座っている場所から、周囲を見回して、質感のあるもの、見ていて楽しいもの、興味深いものを探してください。

何かを手に持ち、その物に全神経を集中してください。影が落ちている部分や、物の中に形が浮かび上がっている部分に注目してください。手に持った時の重さや軽さ、指の裏側の表面の質感を感じてみてください（ペットを飼っている場合は、ペットと一緒に行うこともできます）。

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

以下の質問を自分に問いかけ、声に出して答えましょう。

1\. 私はどこにいますか？

2\. 今日は何曜日ですか？

3\. 今日の日付は何ですか？

4\. 今は何月ですか？

5\. 今は何年ですか？

6\. 私は何歳ですか？

7\. 今はどんな季節ですか？

最後に深呼吸をしましょう。

右手の手のひらを下にして左肩に置きます。左手の手のひらを下にして右肩に置きます。自分を強くしてくれるような言葉を選びましょう。例えば、「私は力強い」などです。まず文章を声に出して読み、右手で左肩を軽く叩き、次に左手で右肩を軽く叩きます。

交互に叩きます。左右5回ずつ、合計10回叩き、そのたびに文章を声に出して繰り返します。

最後に深呼吸をします。

腕を体の前で交差させ、胸に引き寄せます。右手で左上腕を、左手で右上腕を押さえます。優しく握り、腕を内側に引きます。しばらく握りしめた状態を保ち、その瞬間の自分にとって適切な握り加減を見つけます。力を入れたら力を抜きます。そして再びしばらく握りしめ、力を抜きます。しばらくそのままの状態を保ちます。

最後に深呼吸をします。

別のグラウンディング活動を試してみましょう

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