うわあ。なんてひどい状況でしょう。こんなことが起きて本当に残念です。
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Spain\]Spain](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=ve) 日本語 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[ 私たちについて ](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/who-we-are) ノースカロライナ州ローリーで を込めて制作されました。 詳細は私たちの[コミュニティガイドライン](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/community-guidelines)、[個人情報保護方針](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/privacy)、および[利用規約](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/terms)をお読みください。 フィードバックはありますか？ぜひお送りください 🇿🇦 # 私と彼女は遠距離恋愛中で、お互いの距離は約 9 時間です。彼女は最近、人身売買の被害者になりかけたと私に話しました。彼女によると、彼女と友人は薬物を投与され、移送される前に警察に見つかったそうです。彼女は病院で目を覚まし、性感染症の検査を受けましたが (すべて陰性)、悲しいことに友人は助からなかったと私に話しました。 これは彼女にとって初めてのトラウマではありません。彼女は 8 歳のときにも性的虐待を受けています。この最近の事件について知ったことで、私は深く傷つきました。彼女は心配しないで、大丈夫だと言ってくれますが、私は対処に苦労しています。私はまだ彼女のことを愛していますが、以前とは違う気持ちです。この出来事が起こったとき、とても遠くにいたため、状況はさらに悪化しました。彼女のそばにいてあげられたらよかったのですが、どれだけ助けになるかわかりません。私は途方に暮れ、空虚を感じており、この状況と自分の感情をどう処理したらよいかアドバイスが必要です。 \[Image: Dr. Laura\] **Dr. Laura**による回答 博士号精神保健看護師＆性暴力看護師認定者 トピックス:[サバイバーをサポートし、味方になる方法](/ja/learn?tags=how-to-support-survivors-and-be-an-ally) うわあ。なんてひどい状況でしょう。こんなことが起きて本当に残念です。 あなたがこのことでどれほど深く傷ついているか、私は聞いています。そして、物理的に彼女と離れている状態でこのニュースを受け止めることがどれほど大変なことか、理解したいです。愛する人のトラウマ体験を知ることで、途方に暮れたり、空虚になったり、変わったように感じたりするのは、まったく普通のことです。あなたがこれらの感情と格闘していることは、あなたが彼女のことをどれほど気にかけているのかを示しています。彼女は「大丈夫」だからストレスを感じなくていいと言うかもしれませんが、あなたが心配するのは当然です。トラウマは生存者だけでなく、その愛する人にも影響を及ぼします。あなたの気持ちももっともです。 この時期に遠距離恋愛を続けることは、独特の課題を伴います。物理的に一緒にいることはできませんが、それでも彼女をサポートできる有意義な方法があります。彼女の生活の中で一貫して信頼できる存在になること、彼女が話したいときには批判せずに耳を傾けること、彼女が話したくないときには彼女の境界を尊重すること、そして彼女が必要とするサポートについて彼女の導きに従うことなどです。通常のルーチンと会話を維持することしかできないこともありますが、それが彼女の望みであれば、非常に役立つことがあります。 しかし、自分自身のケアも重要です。トラウマを経験した人をサポートしながら、自分自身の感情を処理するのは、感情的に難しい場合があります。複雑な感情をうまく処理し、自分自身の感情的な健康を維持しながらサポートする方法を学ぶことができるカウンセラーに相談することを検討してください。今、あなたが「違う」と感じるのは普通のことです。このような重大な出来事は、私たちの視点や関係を変える可能性があります。これは、あなたの愛が価値がないことを意味するものではありません。あなたは重い状況に対処しており、適応する時間が必要なのです。 生存者を支援するリソースの多くは、愛する人へのアドバイスも提供しています。RAINN などの組織は、ホットライン (800.656.HOPE) や[オンライン チャット サービス](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhotline.rainn.org%2Fonline%3F_ga%3D2.263100812.1834801304.1733247246-101655522.1716293937&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en-US&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=0bac5b71-a1db-47a3-b4e3-fa24fee3f4f7&sig=0c00e10b8e7b2395237309d626601fca9f05d5e3b6e4df408847ff604f35a7ca)など、生存者の友人や家族向けの特別なリソースを用意しています。これらのサービスは、トラウマが波紋を引き起こし、生存者のサポート ネットワーク全体に影響を及ぼすことを理解しており、生存者とその愛する人の両方が回復のプロセスを乗り越えられるよう支援する体制を整えています。 これを一人で解決する必要はありません。あなたが経験していることを理解し、この困難な時期にガールフレンドをサポートし、あなた自身を気遣うのを助けてくれる人がいます。 ご連絡いただきありがとうございます。この困難な時期に、私たちはあなた方二人のことを思っています。 ランダムな質問 0 賛成票 賛成票 [ 1 コメント コメント 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Argentina\]Argentina](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=ar)[\[Image: Australia\]Australia](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=au)[\[Image: Bolivia\]Bolivia](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=ca)[\[Image: Chile\]Chile](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=cl)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=pa)[\[Image: 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Spain\]Spain](/answer/my-girlfriend-and-i-are-in-a-long-distance-relationship-about-9-hours-apart-she-recently-told-me-she-was-almost-a-victim-of-human-trafficking-according-to-her-she-and-her-friend-were-drugged-and-found-by-police-before-they-could-be-transported-she-woke-up-in-a-hospital-where-she-was-tested-for-stds-all-negative-but-tragically-she-told-me-her-friend-didnt-survive-this-isnt-her-first-trauma-she-was-also-molested-when-she-was-8-years-old-learning-about-this-recent-incident-has-deeply-affected-me-while-she-tells-me-not-to-worry-and-that-shes-okay-im-struggling-to-cope-i-still-love-her-but-i-feel-different-being-so-far-away-when-this-happened-makes-it-worse-i-wish-i-could-be-there-for-her-though-im-not-sure-how-much-help-i-could-be-im-feeling-lost-and-empty-and-i-need-advice-on-how-to-handle-this-situation-and-my-emotions-348?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United 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