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Japan\]Japan](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=pa)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=ve) 日本語 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[ 私たちについて ](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/who-we-are) ノースカロライナ州ローリーで を込めて制作されました。 詳細は私たちの[コミュニティガイドライン](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/community-guidelines)、[個人情報保護方針](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/privacy)、および[利用規約](https://www.ourwave.org/ja/terms)をお読みください。 フィードバックはありますか？ぜひお送りください 🇲🇽 # 9歳か10歳の頃、同じくらいの年齢の友達が二人いて、彼らの家を訪ねると好奇心からキスをしてきたので、私はただじっと彼らが終わるのを待っていました。それが虐待だったのか、それとも何かそういうことだったのか、私には全くわかりませんでした。そのうちの一人は私に携帯電話でポルノビデオを探すように言いましたが、何年も経った今でも、その状況に何の責任も感じていません。私はそれについて中立的な気持ちで、自分に何が起こったのかを本当に理解したいと思っています。 私が9歳か10歳の頃、同じくらいの年齢の友達が2人いました。彼らの家を訪ねると、彼らは好奇心から私にキスをし、私はただじっと彼らが終わるのを待っていました。それが虐待なのか、それとも何かそういうものなのか、私にはよく分かりませんでした。彼らのうちの一人が私に携帯電話でポルノビデオを検索するように言いました。数年経った今、私はその状況に関して何の重荷も背負っていません。私はそれについて中立的な気持ちで、自分に何が起こったのかを本当に理解したいと思っています。 \[Image: Dr. Laura\] **Dr. Laura**による回答 博士号精神保健看護師＆性暴力看護師認定者 トピックス:[幼少期の経験を理解する](/ja/learn?tags=making-sense-of-childhood-experiences) この質問をありがとうございます。その年齢で友達と経験したことは、性的探求や実験の一形態とみなすことができ、子供の間では珍しいことではありません。子どもは生まれつき自分の体に興味があり、その意味を十分に理解せずにこのような行動をとることがあるということを覚えておくことが重要です。 あなたがその状況に対して中立的な感情を抱いておらず、それに関連する感情的な重荷を何ら抱えていないという事実は、これらの経験があなたにとってトラウマではなかったかもしれないことを示唆しています。あなたは、これらの出来事を、大きな苦痛を感じることなく前進できるような方法で処理したかもしれません。人それぞれが自分の経験に対して異なる反応や解釈をするため、中立的な気持ちを持つことは有効な反応です。 しかし、年を重ねて新たな視点を得ると、何が起こったのかを再評価することになるかもしれません。いつでも、これらの記憶について苦痛を感じたり、混乱したり、心配したりし始めたら、助けやサポートを求めてもまったく問題ありません。 性に関する幼少期の経験を処理するのは複雑な場合があり、後になって疑問や不安が生じることも珍しくありません。このような状況に陥った場合は、幼少期の経験や性的な健康を専門とするセラピストなど、信頼できるメンタルヘルスの専門家に相談すると、自分の気持ちを探り、生じる可能性のある課題を乗り越えるための安全な場所が得られます。 覚えておいてください、あなたの経験や感情は、あなたがどのようにラベルを貼るかに関係なく、価値あるものなのです。自分の直感を信じて、精神的な健康とセルフケアを優先しましょう。ある人にとって苦痛なことが、別の人にとっては苦痛ではないかもしれません。そして、それはまったく問題ありません。この質問を私たちに託してくださりありがとうございます。あなた一人じゃありません。 \------- この質問をありがとうございます。その年齢で友達と経験したことは、性的探求や実験の一形態とみなすことができ、子供の間では珍しいことではありません。子どもは自分の体に対して本質的に好奇心が強く、その意味を十分に理解せずにそのような行動をとる可能性があることを覚えておくことが重要です。 あなたがその状況に対して中立的な気持ちを抱いておらず、それに関連する感情的な負担を一切抱えていないという事実は、これらの経験があなたにとってトラウマ的なものではなかった可能性を示唆しています。あなたは、これらの出来事を、大きな苦痛を感じることなく前進できるような方法で処理した可能性があります。誰もが自分の経験に対して異なる反応や解釈をしますが、中立的な気持ちでいることは有効な反応です。 しかし、年を重ねて新たな視点を得ると、何が起こったのかを再評価することになるかもしれません。いつでも、これらの記憶によって苦痛を感じたり、混乱したり、悩んだりし始めたら、助けやサポートを求めてもまったく問題ありません。 性に関する幼少期の経験を処理するのは複雑な場合があり、後になって疑問や懸念が生じることも珍しくありません。このような状況に陥った場合は、幼少期の経験や性的な健康を専門とするセラピストなど、信頼できるメンタルヘルスの専門家に相談すると、自分の気持ちを探り、表面化する可能性のある課題を解決するための安全な場所が得られます。 覚えておいてください、あなたの経験や感情は、あなたがどのようにラベルを貼るかに関係なく、価値あるものなのです。自分の直感を信じて、精神的な健康とセルフケアを優先しましょう。ある人にとって苦痛なことが、別の人にとっては苦痛ではないかもしれません。それはまったく問題ありません。この質問を私たちに託してくださりありがとうございます。あなた一人じゃありません。 ランダムな質問 0 賛成票 賛成票 [ 0 コメント コメント 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Cuba\]Cuba](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican 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Ecuador\]Ecuador](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=ec)[\[Image: El 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Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=jp)[\[Image: 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Rico](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/answer/a-los-9-10-anos-tuve-dos-amigas-alrededor-de-la-misma-edad-que-al-momento-de-irlas-a-visitar-a-sus-casas-terminaban-besandome-por-curiosidad-y-yo-solamente-me-quedaba-quieta-esperando-a-que-terminaran-nunca-llegue-a-entender-si-fue-abuso-o-algo-por-el-estilo-una-de-ellas-me-decia-que-buscara-videos-pornograficos-en-mi-celular-y-anos-despues-no-cargo-ningun-peso-sobre-la-situacion-me-siento-neutral-al-respecto-y-quiero-comprender-realmente-que-fue-lo-que-me-paso-when-i-was-9-10-years-old-i-had-two-friends-around-the-same-age-whenever-i-visited-them-at-their-homes-they-would-end-up-kissing-me-out-of-curiosity-and-i-would-just-stay-still-waiting-for-them-to-finish-i-never-quite-understood-if-it-was-abuse-or-something-like-that-one-of-them-told-me-to-search-for-pornographic-videos-on-my-phone-years-later-i-dont-carry-any-burden-regarding-the-situation-i-feel-neutral-about-it-and-i-want-to-truly-understand-what-happened-to-me-129?country=ve) 日本語 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