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# Cuando era muy pequeña (5-7), mi prima, que era un poco mayor que yo (6-8), inició una conducta sexual conmigo. Acepté sin sentirme presionada ni asustada, y no creo que ninguno de los dos entendiera realmente lo que estábamos haciendo. ¿Se considera esto una forma de abuso o abuso sexual entre niños (COCSA), aunque en ese momento no me sentí mal al respecto?

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Respuesta por **Dr. Laura**

Enfermera de Salud Mental con Doctorado y Examinadora de Enfermera de Agresión Sexual

Temas:[Dando sentido a las experiencias de la infancia](/es/learn?tags=making-sense-of-childhood-experiences)

Gracias por hacer esta pregunta. Si bien no puedo emitir juicios definitivos y solo usted puede ponerle nombre a sus experiencias, puedo brindarle información general que podría ayudarlo a procesar lo que le sucedió a esa edad.

Este tipo de interacciones entre niños pequeños suelen denominarse "juegos sexuales" o "conductas sexuales en niños". Cuando ambos niños son muy pequeños y tienen edades cercanas, como en su caso, por lo general no se considera abuso sexual entre niños si no hubo coerción, presión o desequilibrio de poder.

Es común que los niños pequeños sientan curiosidad por los cuerpos y se involucren en conductas exploratorias sin comprender completamente la naturaleza sexual ni las implicaciones. El hecho de que ninguno de los dos se sintiera presionado o comprendiera completamente lo que estaba sucediendo es significativo.

Sin embargo, es importante tener en cuenta que, incluso si no te sentiste mal al respecto en ese momento, a veces esas experiencias pueden tener impactos emocionales tardíos que surgen más adelante en la vida. No pasa nada si tus sentimientos sobre la experiencia han cambiado con el tiempo.

Si considera que esta experiencia pasada le está causando angustia ahora, o si tiene preguntas o inquietudes al respecto, podría ser útil hablar con un terapeuta especializado en experiencias infantiles y desarrollo sexual. Puede brindarle un espacio seguro para explorar sus sentimientos y ayudarlo a comprender y procesar esta experiencia en el contexto de su desarrollo y bienestar general.

Es importante destacar que también está bien no etiquetar esta experiencia si no sientes la necesidad de hacerlo. No deberías sentirte presionado a caracterizar algo como traumático si no lo fue para ti. Tus sentimientos y percepciones sobre tus propias experiencias son válidos, y es perfectamente aceptable considerar esto como un evento infantil neutral si así es como realmente te sientes al respecto.

Recuerda que tus sentimientos sobre esta experiencia, cualesquiera que sean, son válidos. No existe una forma "correcta" de sentirte sobre experiencias infantiles complejas. Gracias por preguntarnos esto. Agradecemos que te hayas puesto en contacto con nosotros.

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Bolivia\]Bolivia](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=ca)[\[Image: Chile\]Chile](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=cl)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=gt)[\[Image: Honduras\]Honduras](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=hn)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United 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Venezuela\]Venezuela](/answer/of-course-heres-a-shortened-version-that-keeps-the-cousin-context-when-i-was-very-young-5-7-my-slightly-older-cousin-6-8-initiated-sexual-behavior-with-me-i-agreed-without-feeling-pressured-or-scared-and-i-dont-think-either-of-us-really-understood-what-we-were-doing-is-this-considered-a-form-of-abuse-or-child-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-even-though-i-didnt-feel-negatively-about-it-at-the-time-282?country=ve)

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Encuentra un lugar cómodo para sentarte. Cierra los ojos suavemente y respira profundamente un par de veces: inhala por la nariz (cuenta hasta 3), exhala por la boca (cuenta hasta 3). Ahora abre los ojos y mira a tu alrededor. Nombra lo siguiente en voz alta:

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1 – cosa que te gusta de ti mismo.

Respira hondo para terminar.

Desde donde estás sentado, busca objetos con textura o que sean bonitos o interesantes.

Sostén un objeto en la mano y concéntrate completamente en él. Observa dónde caen las sombras en algunas partes o quizás dónde se forman formas dentro del objeto. Siente lo pesado o ligero que es en la mano y cómo se siente la textura de la superficie bajo los dedos (esto también se puede hacer con una mascota, si tienes una).

Respira hondo para terminar.

Hazte las siguientes preguntas y respóndelas en voz alta:

1\. ¿Dónde estoy?

2\. ¿Qué día de la semana es hoy?

3\. ¿Qué fecha es hoy?

4\. ¿En qué mes estamos?

5\. ¿En qué año estamos?

6\. ¿Cuántos años tengo?

7\. ¿En qué estación estamos?

Respira hondo para terminar.

Coloca la palma de la mano derecha sobre el hombro izquierdo. Coloca la palma de la mano izquierda sobre el hombro derecho. Elige una frase que te fortalezca. Por ejemplo: "Soy poderoso". Di la oración en voz alta primero y da una palmadita con la mano derecha en el hombro izquierdo, luego con la mano izquierda en el hombro derecho.

Alterna las palmaditas. Da diez palmaditas en total, cinco de cada lado, repitiendo cada vez las oraciones en voz alta.

Respira hondo para terminar.

Cruza los brazos frente a ti y llévalos hacia el pecho. Con la mano derecha, sujeta el brazo izquierdo. Con la mano izquierda, sujeta el brazo derecho. Aprieta suavemente y lleva los brazos hacia adentro. Mantén la presión un rato, buscando la intensidad adecuada para ti en ese momento. Mantén la tensión y suelta. Luego, vuelve a apretar un rato y suelta. Mantén la presión un momento.

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Pruebe otra actividad de puesta a tierra

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