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title: Comunidad Mi prima y yo teníamos edades parecidas (ella era un año mayor) y me obligaba a tocarla, besarla e intentar tocarme a mí también. No me negué, pero me sentí manipulada y temía que, si alguien se enteraba, mi familia y mis padres me odiaran. ¿Se considera esto abuso sexual infantil (ASI)? ~ Our Wave
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# Mi prima y yo teníamos edades parecidas (ella era un año mayor) y me obligaba a tocarla, besarla e intentar tocarme a mí también. No me negué, pero me sentí manipulada y temía que, si alguien se enteraba, mi familia y mis padres me odiaran. ¿Se considera esto abuso sexual infantil (ASI)?

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Respuesta por **Dr. Laura**

Enfermera de Salud Mental con Doctorado y Examinadora de Enfermera de Agresión Sexual

Temas:[Dando sentido a las experiencias de la infancia](/es/learn?tags=making-sense-of-childhood-experiences)

Gracias por contactarnos sobre esto. Cuando los niños participan en actividades sexuales, existen muchos factores que ayudan a determinar si las interacciones fueron dañinas, incluyendo factores como la coerción, la manipulación, los desequilibrios de poder o las diferencias significativas en el conocimiento o el desarrollo entre los niños involucrados.

Los sentimientos que describes (sentirte manipulado y asustado por un posible rechazo familiar) son indicadores importantes de cómo te afectaron estas experiencias. Aunque no hayas dicho que no, la ausencia de rechazo no significa que te sintieras cómodo ni que hubiera un consentimiento genuino. Los niños suelen ceder ante situaciones que les incomodan por confusión, miedo o impotencia, y esto no los hace responsables de lo sucedido.

Su temor a la reacción familiar podría provenir de diferentes fuentes: podría reflejar una sensación intuitiva de que algo no era apropiado, o simplemente podría ser el secretismo natural que los niños sienten ante cualquier comportamiento sexual, incluso una exploración inofensiva. Muchos niños saben instintivamente que las actividades sexuales son asuntos privados de adultos, por lo que sentir miedo a que se descubra no necesariamente indica una mala conducta por parte de ninguno de los niños involucrados.

Es importante abordar estas experiencias infantiles con compasión por todos los niños involucrados. Tu prima también era muy pequeña y podría haber estado actuando con comportamientos que aprendió en otro lugar, posiblemente debido a su propia exposición a contenido o experiencias inapropiadas. Los niños que inician contacto sexual con otros niños a menudo responden a su propia confusión, curiosidad o incluso trauma, en lugar de actuar con malas intenciones. Esto no minimiza tu experiencia ni tus sentimientos, pero reconocer la complejidad a veces puede ayudar a reducir los sentimientos de ira o culpa.

Independientemente de cómo decida comprender o etiquetar estas experiencias ( [COCSA](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ourwave.org%2Fpost%2Fchild-on-child-sexual-abuse-cocsa-frequently-asked-questions-and-considerations&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=68c28299-f8ba-4a5e-95d4-624f8c35b488&sig=70057f8a74f400b6505c541482fb4f8fbcb1f1464a84ec8c39f3ccf3b9ff0413) o de otro modo), sus sentimientos sobre lo sucedido son profundamente importantes. Si estas interacciones lo hicieron sentir violado, confundido o herido, esos sentimientos merecen reconocimiento y atención. A muchas personas les resulta útil procesar estas experiencias con un terapeuta especializado en trauma que comprenda las experiencias sexuales en la infancia y pueda brindarle un espacio seguro para explorar sus sentimientos sin juicios. Merece apoyo y sanación, y la etiqueta que le parezca más acertada es la que más importa en su proceso de sanación. Gracias por confiar en nosotros. Lo apreciamos.

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Actividad de puesta a tierra

Encuentra un lugar cómodo para sentarte. Cierra los ojos suavemente y respira profundamente un par de veces: inhala por la nariz (cuenta hasta 3), exhala por la boca (cuenta hasta 3). Ahora abre los ojos y mira a tu alrededor. Nombra lo siguiente en voz alta:

5 – cosas que puedes ver (puedes mirar dentro de la habitación y por la ventana)

4 – cosas que puedes sentir (¿qué hay frente a ti que puedas tocar?)

3 – cosas que puedes oír

2 – cosas que puedes oler

1 – cosa que te gusta de ti mismo.

Respira hondo para terminar.

Desde donde estás sentado, busca objetos con textura o que sean bonitos o interesantes.

Sostén un objeto en la mano y concéntrate completamente en él. Observa dónde caen las sombras en algunas partes o quizás dónde se forman formas dentro del objeto. Siente lo pesado o ligero que es en la mano y cómo se siente la textura de la superficie bajo los dedos (esto también se puede hacer con una mascota, si tienes una).

Respira hondo para terminar.

Hazte las siguientes preguntas y respóndelas en voz alta:

1\. ¿Dónde estoy?

2\. ¿Qué día de la semana es hoy?

3\. ¿Qué fecha es hoy?

4\. ¿En qué mes estamos?

5\. ¿En qué año estamos?

6\. ¿Cuántos años tengo?

7\. ¿En qué estación estamos?

Respira hondo para terminar.

Coloca la palma de la mano derecha sobre el hombro izquierdo. Coloca la palma de la mano izquierda sobre el hombro derecho. Elige una frase que te fortalezca. Por ejemplo: "Soy poderoso". Di la oración en voz alta primero y da una palmadita con la mano derecha en el hombro izquierdo, luego con la mano izquierda en el hombro derecho.

Alterna las palmaditas. Da diez palmaditas en total, cinco de cada lado, repitiendo cada vez las oraciones en voz alta.

Respira hondo para terminar.

Cruza los brazos frente a ti y llévalos hacia el pecho. Con la mano derecha, sujeta el brazo izquierdo. Con la mano izquierda, sujeta el brazo derecho. Aprieta suavemente y lleva los brazos hacia adentro. Mantén la presión un rato, buscando la intensidad adecuada para ti en ese momento. Mantén la tensión y suelta. Luego, vuelve a apretar un rato y suelta. Mantén la presión un momento.

Respira hondo para terminar.

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