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Colombia\]Colombia](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=co)[\[Image: 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Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gt)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=uy)[\[Image: 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Envíanoslo 🇺🇸 # Estoy tratando de determinar si lo que viví fue una agresión sexual o si simplemente estoy molesta porque no salió como esperaba. Conocí a un chico en una aplicación de citas que me pidió que estudiara con él en una biblioteca pública. Acepté, pensando que eso era todo lo que sucedería. Cuando me pidió que me besara, no le dije que no, pero realmente no lo disfruté. Más tarde, me pidió que nos viéramos en el baño y, aunque no quería, sentí que tenía que hacerlo. No me gustó y él no tenía condón, pero no dije nada. Como nunca le dije explícitamente que no, siento que no cuenta como agresión porque podría haber pensado que estaba dando mi consentimiento. Después, me bloqueó y nunca volvimos a hablar, pero tuve un susto de embarazo que me causó mucho estrés. Tengo ataques de pánico cuando veo personas que se parecen a él y puedo sentirlo tocándome. No me he puesto la ropa que tenía ese día porque me hace sentir asquerosa. El encuentro ocurrió alrededor de las 3 de la mañana, cuando no había dormido durante al menos dos días y estaba atravesando una ruptura con una pareja abusiva. No estaba en un buen estado de ánimo, pero él no lo sabía. Como persona autista, puede que no haya captado algunas señales, pero no esperaba que las cosas sucedieran en público. Dudo que fuera una agresión sexual porque me sentí bien en ese momento, pero desde entonces no he tenido sentimientos positivos o neutrales al respecto. Nunca he tenido sexo con un chico antes, así que me pregunto si simplemente estoy decepcionada y tratando de encontrar una razón para estar molesta porque no fue la experiencia de cuento de hadas que había imaginado. \[Image: Dr. Laura\] Respuesta por **Dr. Laura** Enfermera de Salud Mental con Doctorado y Examinadora de Enfermera de Agresión Sexual Temas:[Dando sentido a las experiencias de los adultos](/es/learn?tags=making-sense-of-adult-experiences) Gracias por comunicarse con nosotros. Lo que ha descrito parece una experiencia muy angustiante y confusa. Es comprensible que le cueste dar sentido a sus sentimientos y determinar si lo que sucedió fue una agresión sexual. En primer lugar, es importante reconocer que [el consentimiento](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.rainn.org%2Farticles%2Fwhat-is-consent&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=a6695950-2421-4f11-9b27-493b27c0092b&sig=a83a147de60fce162dbdcda503b52bed0862615962013490bcb7ec31b0d16311) no es solo la ausencia de un "no". Es la presencia de un "sí" entusiasta, informado y dado libremente. Parece que no estabas en condiciones de dar un consentimiento claro y entusiasta. Mencionaste que no querías participar en una actividad sexual, pero sentías que tenías que hacerlo. Esta presión para cumplir, incluso si no se dijo explícitamente, puede ser una forma de [coerción](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fstories.ourwave.org%2Fen%2Fanswer%2Fhow-do-i-know-if-i-was-coerced-into-having-sex-12&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=a6695950-2421-4f11-9b27-493b27c0092b&sig=ca9561cfb0632987204922b24fa2cd6e733ef39828eb35867d4fee3b7efdb1e9) . Además, el hecho de que estuvieras privado de sueño, recientemente salieras de una relación abusiva y posiblemente no percibieras las señales sociales debido a que eres autista contribuye a una situación en la que eras vulnerable y no podías defender plenamente tus necesidades y límites. Es preocupante y molesto que te haya bloqueado y haya desaparecido después del encuentro. Esto sugiere que tal vez estaba más interesado en su propia satisfacción que en asegurarse de que la experiencia fuera mutuamente cómoda y consensuada. Lamento que hayas pasado por eso. No te lo merecías. No es algo amable y solo puedo imaginar lo doloroso que te debe haber resultado. Las reacciones físicas y emocionales que has estado experimentando (ataques de pánico, sentir su tacto, incomodidad al usar cierta ropa) son todas respuestas comunes al trauma sexual. Incluso si te sentiste bien en el momento, es válido tener reacciones tardías de angustia, confusión y disgusto. Sólo usted puede ponerle nombre a sus experiencias, pero es importante recordar que la agresión sexual nunca es su culpa. Usted no tiene la culpa de sus acciones ni de no poder detener la situación. Es responsabilidad de la persona que inicia el contacto sexual asegurarse de que su pareja consienta con entusiasmo y se sienta cómoda durante todo el encuentro. Es comprensible que te cuestiones tus propios sentimientos y te preguntes si simplemente estás decepcionado porque la experiencia no estuvo a la altura de tus expectativas. Sin embargo, el hecho de que estés teniendo reacciones negativas tan fuertes sugiere que hubo algo profundamente perturbador en el encuentro y que es posible que estés sintiendo algo más que una simple decepción. Te animo a que te pongas en contacto con un amigo de confianza, un familiar o un terapeuta para procesar esta experiencia. Puede resultar útil hablar de tus sentimientos con alguien que pueda ofrecerte apoyo y validación. Si te sientes cómodo, también puedes plantearte ponerte en contacto con una [línea directa o un chat para víctimas de agresión sexual](https://community.ourwave.org/_external/link?url=https%3A%2F%2Fhotline.rainn.org%2Fonline%3F_ga%3D2.218187546.2025760637.1718739032-101655522.1716293937&resourceId=non_specific&localeId=en&countryId=us&src=answer&questionId=a6695950-2421-4f11-9b27-493b27c0092b&sig=7a320b4eedb38b8508078ffe58fdec2386cc46cd9f049d5df6ed5638db275c94) o con una organización de apoyo para obtener recursos y orientación adicionales. Recuerda que tus sentimientos son válidos y que mereces que se respeten tus límites y tu bienestar en todos los encuentros sexuales. No es raro que tengas problemas para etiquetar las experiencias coercitivas. Sé amable contigo mismo mientras atraviesas esta situación compleja y recuerda que puedes contar con nuestro apoyo. Gracias por confiar en nosotros. No estás solo. 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Argentina\]Argentina](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ar)[\[Image: 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Bolivia\]Bolivia](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=bo)[\[Image: Canada\]Canada](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ca)[\[Image: Chile\]Chile](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=cl)[\[Image: Colombia\]Colombia](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=co)[\[Image: Costa Rica\]Costa Rica](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=cr)[\[Image: Cuba\]Cuba](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=cu)[\[Image: Dominican Republic\]Dominican Republic](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=do)[\[Image: Ecuador\]Ecuador](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ec)[\[Image: El Salvador\]El Salvador](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=sv)[\[Image: Equatorial Guinea\]Equatorial Guinea](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gq)[\[Image: Guatemala\]Guatemala](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gt)[\[Image: Ireland\]Ireland](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ie)[\[Image: Japan\]Japan](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=jp)[\[Image: Mexico\]Mexico](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=mx)[\[Image: Nicaragua\]Nicaragua](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ni)[\[Image: New Zealand\]New Zealand](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=nz)[\[Image: Panama\]Panama](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pa)[\[Image: Paraguay\]Paraguay](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=py)[\[Image: Peru\]Peru](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pe)[\[Image: Puerto Rico\]Puerto Rico](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=pr)[\[Image: Spain\]Spain](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=es)[\[Image: United Kingdom\]United Kingdom](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=gb)[\[Image: Uruguay\]Uruguay](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=uy)[\[Image: Venezuela\]Venezuela](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162?country=ve) Español [English](/en/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162)[Español](/es/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162)[日本語](/ja/answer/im-struggling-to-determine-whether-what-i-experienced-was-sexual-assault-or-if-im-just-upset-that-it-didnt-go-as-i-had-hoped-i-met-a-guy-from-a-dating-app-who-asked-me-to-study-with-him-at-a-public-library-i-agreed-thinking-that-was-all-that-would-happen-when-he-asked-to-kiss-me-i-didnt-say-no-but-i-didnt-really-enjoy-it-later-he-asked-me-to-meet-him-in-the-bathroom-and-although-i-didnt-want-to-i-felt-like-i-had-to-go-through-with-it-i-didnt-like-it-and-he-didnt-have-a-condom-but-i-didnt-say-anything-since-i-never-explicitly-told-him-no-i-feel-like-it-doesnt-count-as-assault-because-he-might-have-thought-i-was-consenting-afterwards-he-blocked-me-and-we-never-spoke-again-but-i-had-a-pregnancy-scare-that-caused-me-a-lot-of-stress-i-have-panic-attacks-when-i-see-people-who-look-like-him-and-i-can-feel-him-touching-me-i-havent-worn-the-outfit-i-had-on-that-day-because-it-makes-me-feel-gross-the-encounter-happened-around-3-am-when-i-hadnt-slept-for-at-least-two-days-and-was-going-through-a-breakup-with-an-abusive-partner-i-wasnt-in-a-good-state-of-mind-but-he-didnt-know-that-as-an-autistic-person-i-may-have-missed-some-signals-but-i-didnt-expect-things-to-happen-in-public-im-doubting-if-it-was-sexual-assault-because-i-felt-fine-at-the-time-but-since-then-ive-had-no-positive-or-neutral-feelings-about-it-ive-never-had-sex-with-a-guy-before-so-i-wonder-if-im-just-disappointed-and-trying-to-find-a-reason-to-be-upset-because-it-wasnt-the-fairy-tale-experience-i-had-imagined-162) Para obtener ayuda inmediata, visite {{resource}} Hecho con en Raleigh, NC | Lea nuestras [Normas de la comunidad](https://www.ourwave.org/es/community-guidelines), [Política de privacidad](https://www.ourwave.org/es/privacy) y [Términos](https://www.ourwave.org/es/terms) | [ #### Recursos ](/es/resources) ### Publicar un mensaje Comparte un mensaje de apoyo con la comunidad. Continuar Te enviaremos un correo electrónico en cuanto se publique tu mensaje. así como enviar recursos útiles y apoyo. Publicar Por favor, respete nuestras [Normas de la comunidad](https://www.ourwave.org/es/community-guidelines) para ayudarnos a mantener Our Wave un espacio seguro. Todos los mensajes serán revisados ​​y se eliminará la información que los identifique antes de su publicación. ### Haz una pregunta Pregunta sobre supervivencia o apoyo a sobrevivientes. Continuar Te enviaremos un correo electrónico en cuanto tengamos respuesta a tu pregunta, además de recursos útiles y apoyo. Enviar ### ¿Cómo podemos ayudarte? Indícanos por qué denuncias este contenido. Nuestro equipo de moderación revisará tu informe en breve. Violencia, odio o explotación Amenazas, lenguaje de odio o coerción sexual Acoso o contacto no deseado Acoso, intimidación o mensajes no deseados persistentes Estafa, fraude o suplantación de identidad Solicitudes engañosas o hacerse pasar por otra persona Información falsa Afirmaciones engañosas o desinformación deliberada Enviar ### Comparte tus Comentarios Cuéntanos qué funciona (y qué no) para que podamos seguir mejorando. Enviar ### Iniciar sesión Ingresa el correo electrónico que usaste para enviar tu solicitud a Our Wave y te enviaremos un enlace para acceder a tu perfil. Enviar enlace Actividad de puesta a tierra Encuentra un lugar cómodo para sentarte. Cierra los ojos suavemente y respira profundamente un par de veces: inhala por la nariz (cuenta hasta 3), exhala por la boca (cuenta hasta 3). Ahora abre los ojos y mira a tu alrededor. Nombra lo siguiente en voz alta: 5 – cosas que puedes ver (puedes mirar dentro de la habitación y por la ventana) 4 – cosas que puedes sentir (¿qué hay frente a ti que puedas tocar?) 3 – cosas que puedes oír 2 – cosas que puedes oler 1 – cosa que te gusta de ti mismo. Respira hondo para terminar. Desde donde estás sentado, busca objetos con textura o que sean bonitos o interesantes. Sostén un objeto en la mano y concéntrate completamente en él. Observa dónde caen las sombras en algunas partes o quizás dónde se forman formas dentro del objeto. Siente lo pesado o ligero que es en la mano y cómo se siente la textura de la superficie bajo los dedos (esto también se puede hacer con una mascota, si tienes una). Respira hondo para terminar. Hazte las siguientes preguntas y respóndelas en voz alta: 1\. ¿Dónde estoy? 2\. ¿Qué día de la semana es hoy? 3\. ¿Qué fecha es hoy? 4\. ¿En qué mes estamos? 5\. ¿En qué año estamos? 6\. ¿Cuántos años tengo? 7\. ¿En qué estación estamos? Respira hondo para terminar. Coloca la palma de la mano derecha sobre el hombro izquierdo. Coloca la palma de la mano izquierda sobre el hombro derecho. Elige una frase que te fortalezca. Por ejemplo: "Soy poderoso". Di la oración en voz alta primero y da una palmadita con la mano derecha en el hombro izquierdo, luego con la mano izquierda en el hombro derecho. Alterna las palmaditas. Da diez palmaditas en total, cinco de cada lado, repitiendo cada vez las oraciones en voz alta. Respira hondo para terminar. Cruza los brazos frente a ti y llévalos hacia el pecho. Con la mano derecha, sujeta el brazo izquierdo. Con la mano izquierda, sujeta el brazo derecho. Aprieta suavemente y lleva los brazos hacia adentro. Mantén la presión un rato, buscando la intensidad adecuada para ti en ese momento. Mantén la tensión y suelta. Luego, vuelve a apretar un rato y suelta. Mantén la presión un momento. Respira hondo para terminar. Pruebe otra actividad de puesta a tierra Me siento arraigado y preparado