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Is it possible for a child to assault an adult? What should the adult do if this happens?

Dr. Laura

Answer by Dr. Laura

PhD Mental Health Nurse & Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner

Thank you for raising this sensitive topic. While it's understandable to have questions about complex situations, it's crucial to approach this subject with extreme care and prioritize the safety and wellbeing of all individuals, especially children.

For adult survivors of sexual violence, it's important to recognize that children cannot be held legally or morally responsible for sexual behaviors in the same way adults can. Children who exhibit inappropriate sexual behaviors are often acting out due to their own experiences of abuse, trauma, or exposure to inappropriate content. They require compassionate intervention and professional help, not blame or punishment.

If an adult experiences concerning behavior from a child, the appropriate response is to seek immediate assistance from child protective services, law enforcement, or mental health professionals specializing in childhood trauma and inappropriate sexual behaviors. These experts can provide proper assessment, support, and intervention to address the underlying issues and ensure everyone's safety.

For adult survivors, such situations may be particularly triggering or distressing. It's crucial to prioritize their own mental health and seek support from a trauma-informed therapist or counselor who can help you process your feelings and reactions should you feel that this happened to you. Remember, your experiences and emotions are valid, and you deserve support in navigating any situation that brings up painful memories or emotions.

The focus in these complex situations should always be on getting proper professional help to ensure the protection, healing, and wellbeing of all involved, with particular emphasis on safeguarding children. If you're unsure how to proceed in any situation involving concerning behavior from a child, please reach to ChildHelp. 

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